Kim ([info]kimberlina13) wrote,
@ 2004-10-09 19:01:00
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Two things...
1. I am no longer unemployed. I will no longer be filling my days with naps and endless hours chatting on the internet and posting to totally useless message boards. Damn. I found a job with Gwinnett County Public Schools, in the Human Resources Department. Apparently the job entitles handling the classified applications that come through and I remember the boss lady saying something about fingerprints, but anywho, the point is, I am now gainfully employed. Upon hearing this bit of news, I promptly headed to the mall and probably kept several shops in business for at least a couple of more weeks. I went a little overboard, and will be make several returns. Apparently, 450 people sent in their resumes for the position and out of those 450, 16 were chosen for a first interview, and then the top candidates from that bunch was brought back in for a second interview, so needless to say, someone was smiling down upon me on those interviews because I came out of them feeling like I had just rambled my way through the meeting not making one bit of sense. But all's well that end's well. I start Monday. I feel like I'm going back to school after a summer vacation. I'm just glad to be doing something useful with my time. And I feel accomplished because I got this job all on my own, without my dad's help. So that's always a nice boost for the ego.

2. As most of you know, I like reading people's away messages. I may not have talked to the person for months and months, but I will still take the time to read an away message. Some people can get really creative with them, and it will make me laugh, others will make me glad that I no longer associate with certain people. And it has recently come to my attention how stupid people are when they air their dirty laundry through their away messages. And don't get me wrong, in my younger and carefree days, I used to do it as well. But I've realized just how passive-aggressive that it can be, and how it doesn't accomplish anything except to piss the other person off even more. It's like they expect the person to read the away message and be so hurt by it. "OH NO! Not the away message! I'm done for now!" Are you kidding me? To me, people who do this just want attention, they want someone to message them and say, what's wrong. And quite honestly, that's just plain stupid. My all time favorites have been the ones that try to convey how after a certain situation, people now know who their real friends are and all the others can go to hell. I really don't know why this subject matter has me all riled up, but it just does.



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[info]violin
2004-10-10 07:02 pm UTC (link)
COngrats on the job!!

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[info]kimberlina13
2004-10-11 05:42 pm UTC (link)
thanks!

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just curious
(Anonymous)
2004-10-21 06:32 pm UTC (link)
Just wondering what the difference is between someone writing on their away messages, and you writing in your online journal where everyone can read it. And as far as the true friend away message, and people going to hell, you don't know the situation that surrounded it. You don't even talk to that person anymore, so why should you care? There were personal things going on at that time, and I can assure you, the message wasn't meant for you at all. If you thought it did, then you give yourself more credit than you deserve. Stay out of other people's lives, and mind your own business. Whatever people write, maybe it's for other people to read, but honestly, I don't think the person who wrote that gives two shits about what you thought about it. You don't know the situation, or what's going on in that person's life. And if you're one of the people that used to be involved in their lives, maybe you should analyze why you aren't anymore.

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Re: just curious
[info]kimberlina13
2004-10-22 08:23 pm UTC (link)
ok let's take this one step at a time. i'll try to go slow for you, so try and keep up.

1. the difference b/t my journal and people's away messages: you have to actually care enough to find and read my journal, anyone with half a brain can read away messages of people they haven't spoken to in years.

2.i don't need or have to know the situation behind it, and either you're dumb enough to think that you alone came up with that specific message or arrogant enough to believe that i would have the inclination to devote my time, energy, and half a journal entry to you alone and your one silly little away message. YOU don't know the situation that surrounded my journal entry. so get a clue and get out of your little bubble, you are not the only person on my buddy list nor are you the only person that has drama going on in their lives that they feel the need to air to the whole world.

3. mind my own business like you're minding you're own business? interestingly enough, you gave two shits enough to read my journal and post a comment in it.

4. friendships and relationships are a two way street, it is just as much my decision to not be in anyone's life just as much as it is theirs, so while you accuse me of giving myself more credit than i deserve, you are only guilty of the same by making the presumption that it was solely your decision for our friendship not to continue.

my journal, my thoughts, i can write whatever the hell i want to. if it pisses you off, that's your business, don't read it, i'm not forcing you to read it, just like you don't force me to read your away messages. i didn't contact you or anyone else personally to tell them that you all were being whiny brats did i? no, i made a generalization in the realm of my own personal blog. and the next time you feel the need to invade my space and give me your two shits and come off as an self-indulgent victim, at least have the balls to not hide behind an anonymous marker, i do log the ip address, and i know exactly who you are. so this whole charade of referring to yourself in the third person just made you look even more stupid than you already have.

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